I have always know I was different, that I struggled to belong or be able to function as other people could. At 35 years old I made the difficult decision to have children without a partner. 3 years later by then 23 month old second child was diagnosed with Autism level 3,3. 6 months later my daughter would be diagnosed with autism level 2,2 at the age of 4. It would be another 3 year later that I would prioritise my own needs and was diagnosed with autism level 2,2 at the age of 41 years old.

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Since my son's diagnosis I have come to understand that I knew nothing but damaging stereotypes about autism. I have learnt so much about being autistic, overcoming the challenges it creates and my opinions on autism, autism therapies and myths and dialogue have changed greatly throughout the years. I am not perfect, I do not have all the answers. But I know that each autistic is a different as a fingerprint and needs to be listened to and valued for their own unique autistic profile and presentation. What I share here - is everything I have learnt. My wording and opinion may change overtime to reflect what I have learnt. Please always talk to the professionals and autistic experts in your life who know you well to determine if any of what you learn here is valid and useful for you.

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I wish you the best for your journey as an autistic person or someone supporting the autistic community.

                                                                                     Much Love,  A & D.